Should I tell her I have aspergers?

Here is what I do: I have an OCD (pretty bad one, where I get uncontrollable tremors and twitching and loss of breathing for periods of time). I really consider it a blessing though. It sure keeps all the wrong people away from me for all the right reasons. If a person really wants to be with you, he or she will view your condition only as a plus because it will give him or her the opportunity to get even closer to you. Be open about your condition. The right people will stand by you, the wrong ones will get lost for the better.